Many women in a marriage with a husband who may be preoccupied or not showing affection towards his wife, usually a wife can get him back on track with her feminine ways of seducing him in the bed room and him falling back into her arms and opening up to her again. This is always a sure fire way for her to get the affection and intimacy back. What happens when this is not a part of the marriage and the man no longer wants to be intimate with his wife at all?In a marriage this is unacceptable behavior on either spouses part intimacy and sex are part of a marriage and if both partners don’t want it then so be it, but when one does and the other does not this is unfair and grounds for a divorce. When a husband refuses to have sex with his wife the wife must stand her ground and demand that they go to a marriage counselor or an intimacy counselor. Her husband may be suffering from depression, having an affaire, no longer in love with her, no longer attracted to her, but that is not the point. If a husband will not deal with the situation then the wife must seek counseling to try and figure out what she needs to do in the marriage. Many times when a woman changes her behaviors in a marriage the dynamic of the marriage change and she may be able to get her husband back on track or she can choose to end the marriage. Woman have to know that they are not alone in this issue and to not be ashamed of seeking help, it is their right to be loved and cherish by their spouse or the marriage vows have been broken.
For men if you are not longer wanting to have sex with your wife for some reason or another, you must tell her why, it is unfair to just go on in the marriage as if nothing is wrong. Even if it means hurting her feeling you have to at least take a stance and act like a man by being up front honest with he
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This week we will be married 44 years and they have been horrible. After the I DOs were over we had a wonderful wedding night. Sex was super an almost all nighter affair. The next day I expected to be heading out on a honey moon but no my husband cancelled it. He didn't want to go any where with me. He changed in just
a wink of an eye. He went back to work, then he moved all his stuff down stairs where he has slept all these years. Haven't had sex since our wedding night. I've been alone for all these years, and now in my 60s and accepted my life as a nobody who is lonely and depressed. I would like to relive our wedding night again, but that will never happen. He is a lonely person no phone, computer or TV. He goes no where jsut down stairs and out to his shop. He never comes upstairs to chat.
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