Sex play with submission and domination in your marriage

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Sex play using domination and submission has been an erotic sexual act that has been around for centuries.

Couples using role play during sex creating a scene where domination and submission can be role played out in a safe environment. Many couples find it enjoyable to add sex play in their marriage, especially when it comes to domination and submission. One way to ease a partner into this form of role playing is to act out each others fantasies taking on a new character, becoming someone else. The top can be the man or the woman meaning the domme. The roles can be switched been couples with the man be submissive and the woman being dominant the other way around.

Adding fun sex toys to the mix can be fun, and there are many beginners’ bondage kits available, from fun furry cuffs with feathers and duster, to more hard core paddles, masks, and other bondage apparatus.

The Domme can be either the man or the women in the marriage and many times men are willing to allow their wives to take over, and be in charge.

Women also love to be taken by their husbands so the roles can be change.d The one point is that both of you are truly enjoying each other and the experience of the sexual act.

When beginning to get into the submissive sex play, take the time to communicate a “word” that means to stop or a safe word as they call it. Taking on the role of the Domme can certainly bring out the animal in anyone so make sure to play it safe. 

For more information on this subject or to learn how to work it into your relationship contact sex counselor Dawn Michael

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Married couples getting into the swing of being swingers

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As couples grow older together and continue to lead a healthy live style and their sex drive is still going strong, many of these couples are turning towards spicing up their marriages by getting involved in swinging.  This is when the couple either engages in a group of swingers switching partners or they come up with an arrangement for an open marriage.  More so than an open marriage swinging seems to be more acceptable than open marriage because the couple is still maintaining, rules surrounding the experience. 

Many times it includes another person in the bedroom, or switching with another married couple.  This life style is not for everyone and in some relationships it has been the demise of the marriage, but for others it has been an unexpected turn of events in the marriage.  The children have the left the house and the couple finds themselves alone with each other once again and they are looking for new to ways to add passion back into their sex lives, so they ask around and have heard that there is a large group of married couples that are into swinging. 

For more information on swinging read this article in Examiner and find out three of the hottest swingers hangouts in Los Angeles.

http://www.examiner.com/love-and-marriage-in-los-angeles/hot-topic-l-a-marriage-question-how-do-i-ask-my-wife-to-be-a-swinger-with-me

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