For years I have been personally working with men concerning their cuckold fetish and I noticed that many of the men also wanted to be submissive to their wives in their fantasy. The man himself is generally not submissive in daily life but when it deals wit his sexual fantasy of being a cuckold he does want his wife to control his orgasm as well as be submissive to the other man.
In this sexual fantasy the man (husband) desires his wife to have sex with another man that typically has a larger penis than his, as well as his race be black. Many times this need or desire comes from an incident of him being cheated on at some point in his life with a girlfriend or wife and then taking that pain of losing her and it becoming the sexual fetish of cuckold. The video goes into more depth on this matter.
Another aspect of the submissive male is the fact that he wants this other man to sexually please his wife yet be in love with her husband and never leave him because she is sexually satisfied and he is providing her the pleasure. In many cases this is where his fantasy if it become reality has many pit falls and the biggest one is that his wife falls in love with the other man and leaves him.
The submissive cuckold man may want to watch his wife have sex with the "bull" other man informant of him or hear about it at a later time. Most submissive men also like to be a part of the sexual situation at a time and even be submissive to the bull himself. This can involve fluffing, punishment, Chasity belts and pleasing the other man. Occasionally a submissive cuckold man will also have a penis fetish as will, which can cause much confusion to him about his sexual preference. In most cases the fantasy rarely equates into real life and along the way the women have said that they don't understand how their husband can be in love with them and want them to have sex with another man. In the video we go into more detail on this, and how a man can approach his wife so as not to destroy the marriage.
If you are a man struggling with this it is import to seek help.
This article was written by certified clinical sexologist Dr. Dawn Michael
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