Monday, May 21, 2012

Saving my marriage by having an open marriage

The concept married couples of having an open marriage is such a taboo subject that most people will not even look at the reasoning behind it. 

The reason to have on open marriage is so that each person has the opportunity to have a fling or an affair without lying, or cheating on each other.  What married couples don't realize is that one or the other person in the marriage has already cheated or is thinking about cheating.  The end result when this does happen is that the cheated on spouse is left feeling hurt and humiliated.  One of the facts concerning an open marriage is that it can help the couple form ending the marriage in a time consuming messy divorce.

When a person has been cheated on in a marriage, the number one issue that come up is the fact that they were lied to and how embarrassed and ashamed they feel from it.  Open marriage is not a solution for every couple, but one that can work for some.  The idea of an open marriage, is one based on honesty , friendship and love.  The ability to open the door for the excitement of even being allowed to have sex with another person, could spark an old flam and create a new one in the marriage itself.

The concept seems to go against the gain of the morality of marriage, but so does the fact that many couples live in a sexless marriage and that goes against the grain of nature.  No longer having intimacy with a spouse, or sex feeling like it is a chore, is not what human sexuality is about or it will ever be about.  Marriage is not a prison where a person is not longer allowed to enjoy sex or sexuality, it a union that two people choose to get into and make work, sex in marriage does take work, especially over time. 

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