Image via WikipediaOral sex can be a topic that many couples in marriage are often embarrassed to talk about, but in reality it is a natural part of sexual intimacy. Both men and women enjoy oral sex in marriage and especially men enjoy their wives to give them oral sex or “good head”. When talking about oral sex for a man it is important for a woman to find out how to properly perform oral sex on her husband and understand what he likes. Not only is it helpful to know how to engage in oral sex, but also to fully understand a man’s penis and what to do with it.
"I personally wrote this article for women, who are too embarrassed to talk about oral sex with their husbands, but who what to know what to do. As a marriage counselor and sexologist, I feel it is my job to pass on relevant information to other women, and this happens to be one subject that women want to know but will not ask. They may also want to know if oral sex should be a part of the sexual intimacy between husband and wife and how often it should be done. My advice is that men tend to thoroughly enjoy oral sex receiving it and getting it, so it can enhance the sex in marriage quite a bit. The other factor is that sometimes a woman may not want to have intercourse but still wants to please her husband and this a great way to make him a very happy man. The decision to have oral sex and how often should be talked about between a husband and wife. There is no set standard and it will vary in every couple.
The first and most important step about a wife giving her husband oral sex is the fact that she wants to do it. This is a selfless sexual act done by a wife that wants to bring pleasure to her husband for the sole purpose of pleasing him. This is a very powerful statement and needs to be understood by both husband and wife.
He also has to entrust his wife to take the upmost care of his delicate penis while placing it in her mouth. There is nothing sexier than for a wife to want to please her husband in this manner and there is no quicker way to bring a man to orgasm. When a woman is giving her husband oral sex she is in complete control over him, deciding on when to give him pleasure and when to take it away.
he act of oral sex for a wife giving this to her husband is out of love, desire and pleasing him while empowering herself. Many women may see this as a submissive act, but that is far from the truth, again this is about a husband and a wife enjoying the intimacy between them and a man trusting his wife enough to be careful with him and her wanting to bring him pleasure in this way.
What a wife needs to know about a man's penis and the terminology: