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Showing posts with label erection problems. Show all posts
Showing posts with label erection problems. Show all posts
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How To Keep Your Erection Strong Without Medication
Sunday, June 3, 2012
Erection solution for a harder penis and orgasm
Are not measuring up to certain expectations?
You are not alone when it comes to the fact men are always questioning their penis size and the function of their penis. They search for the answers on how to increase the size of their penis or how to have an erection for a longer period of time.Despite the fact that a large number of men are dealing with a need for penis enlargement, the entire topic seems to be somewhat taboo and incredibly sensitive on the whole. If you are searching for answers or desperate for a solution that meets your needs, then you have come to right place. Get comfortable as we discuss the truth about penis enlargement and longer harder erections.
Which Penis Enlargement Techniques are Most Common?
There are a number of penis enlargement techniques that are utilized by men all over the world. They range from everything from invasive surgery, creams, oils, lotions, pumps, exercises, and pills.What is the Average Penis Size?
The average penis ranges between 5 to 7 inches when erect, that measurement is taken from the tip of the penis to the start of the abdomen.Does Penis Enlargement Work?
There are a number of products and programs that claim to be the final cure and most beneficial product when it comes to penis enlargement. However, how can you know which ones work and which ones are a waste of time and money? While surgery has been known to show success it is incredibly expensive and dangerous so is not necessarily the best option. Many times being able to maintain a stronger harder erection for a longer period of time is more realistic.The best solution when it comes to longer, harder, stronger erections is herbal supplements, that are proven to increase blood flow to the area and increase the hardness and size of erections. These products do not have any side effects, are incredibly affordable, and are easy and simple to use.
That means far less time actually working on increasing the size of your penis and more time playing around with your new found girth, length, and confidence. The confidence to know that you can maintain an erection, without the harmful side effect of prescription medication. Most men don't realize that with a good holistic product you can not only maintain a great erection but have an orgasm as well. Many of the pharmaceutical drugs that promote a longer erection don't always tell you that it may be harder to have an orgasm while using them.
One of the herbal supplements that does increase blood flow and a longer erection with no problem with ejaculation is Pro Solution. The 100% natural male enhancement product has been taken for years by a number of satisfied customers and is solely responsible for an infinite number of orgasms and satisfying sexual encounters. Pro Solution Pills combine over 20 natural ingredients that are all aimed at improving desire, increasing satisfaction, and making your penis truly stand up at attention. With the help of these pills your partner will not only notice how much bigger your erections are getting but will also be more than satisfied with your new profound need to please. Not only can this product potentially improve the size of your penis but it can also leave your partner more satisfied than she has ever been before.
For more information, go to ProsolutionPills.com
Now you can enjoy a stronger erection and climax not only your partner several times but you as well!!
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Sex in the morning for a man may be best
Sex can be better for a man in the morning that has problems with maintaining an erection. A man unlike a woman has a cycle but a man's cycle throughout a day whereas a women's cycle is throughout the month.
Men in a day will have higher testosterone levels in the morning and it will gradually lower as the day progresses, along with the stress of the day. This would suggest that moring sex is going to be the best time for a man to have intercourse.
In the morning a man will wake up with a full erection, this does not alway mean that he is ready for sex, but his body is physically more able to maintain a harder erection. His level of testosterone is at it's peak.
For more informtion on sexual issues or help with erection issues go to Sex Therapy
Saturday, February 12, 2011
How to grow my penis larger fact or fiction
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This is a topic that many men want to understand, penis length.
What man doesn't want to know if they can truly enlarge their penis or is this just a gimmick or myth.
There are many different advertisers out in the market that will tell a man that he can take a quick pill and have increased penis size. In fact, yes it may make the penis seem instantly larger because the blood fills the penis at a faster rate but it does not increase the size. The fact that some pills do make the blood flow faster to the penis may indeed be a solution for some men and they can benefit from taking the pill for that reason alone.
The reality of taking a pill that adds inches to the penis, I have personally never seen. What I have recommended to men is good health and exercise. I also will recommend a product at the end of this article that I have had men say has truly had about a 50% success rate, whether it was as stated bringing the blood to the penis faster or they did follow the instructions and were about to stretch the penis enough to add a few inches to the length is different with each man.
One true fact remains and that is for any man, there is a fat pad located at the base of the penis and the plumper that fat pad gets the small the penis will appear, so by having a leaner body the fat pad will be less plump.
Men are more concerned with their penis size then women, and this has lead to all kinds of different fetishes, from cuckolding to small penis humiliation, to exposing oneself. So much of a man's ego gets tied into the size of his penis and if his penis is able to please his partner.
The question that I get asked by most men is does my penis size matter to a woman, the answer is yes and no, some women like a little bit larger penis, but too large she can't accommodate in her vagina. Does a woman have a problem with a tiny penis over under average penis, yes some women do and then others do not. From the information that I have gathered over the years, when women are shown a mans penis they will gravitate towards about 6' inches which is approximately the length of her vaginal opening when she is aroused.
For more helpful information please contact Dawn to make an appointment or answer questions and please feel free to leave your comments below!
As promised a few products that I recommend for the blood to flow quicker to the penis for a stronger erection.
Penis pump, click picture for more information and VigRx Oil to help with stronger erection
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Erectile dysfunction and rapid ejaculation
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Erectile dysfunction is a problem that can develop as a result of performance anxiety or it can also be the initial cause then leading to performance anxiety. Many men throughout their lives may experience times of not having control over their erection, ejaculation, or fear of performance. Such isolated episodes of losing an erection do not mean that a man has a sexual dysfunction. They may occur as a result of a temporary physical stress (getting sick, too much alcohol or drug use, even overeating and rapid weight gain), or it may be relate to other problems like anxiety with a new partner, problems ejaculating to quickly, lack of confidence with sexual performance. When a man can understand that this may be normal or just has happened for a short period of time, then he can learn to overcome his anxiety.
The other problem that may occur with erectile dysfunction is when a man is anxious it can trigger the same arousal state in the brain causing a man to prematurely ejaculate even when he is not fully erect. One way to help with both of these problems is to seek help from a sex counselor that can coach a man through his negative thoughts and anxious feelings making it easier for him to be more comfortable and confident when the time does arise for sexual intimacy. These techniques can also be used with a partner and this can be a great benefit for both of the individuals in their relationship.
For help with erectile dysfunction visit Dawn
The other problem that may occur with erectile dysfunction is when a man is anxious it can trigger the same arousal state in the brain causing a man to prematurely ejaculate even when he is not fully erect. One way to help with both of these problems is to seek help from a sex counselor that can coach a man through his negative thoughts and anxious feelings making it easier for him to be more comfortable and confident when the time does arise for sexual intimacy. These techniques can also be used with a partner and this can be a great benefit for both of the individuals in their relationship.
For help with erectile dysfunction visit Dawn
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Reasons Why a married man does not have a sex drive
Men are expected to have a sex drive
Many times it is just expected that a man should have a sex drive and always be ready to have sex when the opportunity arises, but that is not the case with every man. When a man is married for some time with children, work, responsibility and everyday stresses this can have a negative impact on his sex drive, especially if he does not know how to release his stress.
There are a few common reasons why a man may lose his sex drive. One of the most common reasons as mentioned is due to stress in his life and the direct impact that it can have on his libido.
Men and women deal with stress in different ways, and among men to men they may deal with stress in different ways, but more men seem to hold onto the stress in their lives as opposed to a women. A majority of men will not want to burden their wife with the stress and they also sometimes feel like if they need to talk about it or express themselves they are less of a man. This of course is not the ideal way to deal with stress and the effects of it can really play havoc on a marriage.
Depression and loss of sex drive
Another reason that a man may loss his sex drive is clinical depression, and this can happen slowly or it can just happen all of a sudden where he just gives up and no longer even tries to be sexual.
Depression can happen at any age but it is more likely to happen to a man in his forties, and if left untreated it can become a problem in the marriage and in all part of the man's life. Signs of depression in men are different than in women. One major sign of depression is lack of libido, he may also not be able to find pleasure in any aspect of his life; he may seem anxious and even exhausted at times. Depression can be heightened by over eating, lack of exercise and drug and alcohol use. If this is a problem then it can be remedied by seeing a doctor and getting on a prescriptive drug for depression.
A man can also naturally boost his sex drive by exercising regularly and taking natural supplements for depression. Eating healthy and getting enough sleep is another way to naturally boost a mans sex drive. The wonderful aspect about exercising and weight lifting is it can help to not only boost serotonin levels but also increase testosterone. Natural testosterone suppliments are available as well.
Naturally low libedo
There are some men who experience a low libido as a natural part of who they are, and when a man reaches his 40's his libido may lessen even further causing him to be not interested in sex or wanting it infrequently. He could naturally have lower testosterone levels as well and this could be part of the reason for lack of libido. In any case it is always a good idea to have a full blood panel done and to check for testosterone and serotonin levels.
After a baby is born
Lastly there is the man who does not want to have sex with his wife or appears to have no sex drive after a baby is born.
He could be experiencing a problem with his wife now becoming a mother and he no longer sees her as his lover; in cases where this does happen it is important to seek out counseling so that the couple can get the proper tools to work on this situation. The other problem that can occur when a woman has a baby is again the husband for a time will feel an overwhelming sense of responsibly and that he is turned off by these feelings and it has literally decreased his sex drive. If this is the cause of the lack of libido or no sex drive, it is important to get help right away and not allow the situation to go on for too long. This is a very difficult situation for a woman as well and can cause some very deep and lasting scars in the marriage.
Marriage counseling If you are a man and experience any of these problems or you are a wife and your husband is experiencing any of these problems, the best thing to do is to have a conversation about the situation. This would involve both husband and wife listening without judgment or anger and trying to understand how fix the situation. A man needs to be able to open up and talk to his wife about his feeling and a wife needs to actively listen without judgment or interruption. The couple can also see a marriage counselor if they need a third party for help, or they can seek individual counseling to try to figure out what the problem is and get help for themselves.
Many times it is just expected that a man should have a sex drive and always be ready to have sex when the opportunity arises, but that is not the case with every man. When a man is married for some time with children, work, responsibility and everyday stresses this can have a negative impact on his sex drive, especially if he does not know how to release his stress.
There are a few common reasons why a man may lose his sex drive. One of the most common reasons as mentioned is due to stress in his life and the direct impact that it can have on his libido.
Men and women deal with stress in different ways, and among men to men they may deal with stress in different ways, but more men seem to hold onto the stress in their lives as opposed to a women. A majority of men will not want to burden their wife with the stress and they also sometimes feel like if they need to talk about it or express themselves they are less of a man. This of course is not the ideal way to deal with stress and the effects of it can really play havoc on a marriage.
Depression and loss of sex drive
Another reason that a man may loss his sex drive is clinical depression, and this can happen slowly or it can just happen all of a sudden where he just gives up and no longer even tries to be sexual.
Depression can happen at any age but it is more likely to happen to a man in his forties, and if left untreated it can become a problem in the marriage and in all part of the man's life. Signs of depression in men are different than in women. One major sign of depression is lack of libido, he may also not be able to find pleasure in any aspect of his life; he may seem anxious and even exhausted at times. Depression can be heightened by over eating, lack of exercise and drug and alcohol use. If this is a problem then it can be remedied by seeing a doctor and getting on a prescriptive drug for depression.
A man can also naturally boost his sex drive by exercising regularly and taking natural supplements for depression. Eating healthy and getting enough sleep is another way to naturally boost a mans sex drive. The wonderful aspect about exercising and weight lifting is it can help to not only boost serotonin levels but also increase testosterone. Natural testosterone suppliments are available as well.
Naturally low libedo
There are some men who experience a low libido as a natural part of who they are, and when a man reaches his 40's his libido may lessen even further causing him to be not interested in sex or wanting it infrequently. He could naturally have lower testosterone levels as well and this could be part of the reason for lack of libido. In any case it is always a good idea to have a full blood panel done and to check for testosterone and serotonin levels.
After a baby is born
Lastly there is the man who does not want to have sex with his wife or appears to have no sex drive after a baby is born.
He could be experiencing a problem with his wife now becoming a mother and he no longer sees her as his lover; in cases where this does happen it is important to seek out counseling so that the couple can get the proper tools to work on this situation. The other problem that can occur when a woman has a baby is again the husband for a time will feel an overwhelming sense of responsibly and that he is turned off by these feelings and it has literally decreased his sex drive. If this is the cause of the lack of libido or no sex drive, it is important to get help right away and not allow the situation to go on for too long. This is a very difficult situation for a woman as well and can cause some very deep and lasting scars in the marriage.
Marriage counseling If you are a man and experience any of these problems or you are a wife and your husband is experiencing any of these problems, the best thing to do is to have a conversation about the situation. This would involve both husband and wife listening without judgment or anger and trying to understand how fix the situation. A man needs to be able to open up and talk to his wife about his feeling and a wife needs to actively listen without judgment or interruption. The couple can also see a marriage counselor if they need a third party for help, or they can seek individual counseling to try to figure out what the problem is and get help for themselves.
Sunday, January 9, 2011
The best way for a wife can to give her husband oral sex or "head"
Image via Wikipedia"I personally wrote this article for women, who are too embarrassed to talk about oral sex with their husbands, but who what to know what to do. As a marriage counselor and sexologist, I feel it is my job to pass on relevant information to other women, and this happens to be one subject that women want to know but will not ask. They may also want to know if oral sex should be a part of the sexual intimacy between husband and wife and how often it should be done. My advice is that men tend to thoroughly enjoy oral sex receiving it and getting it, so it can enhance the sex in marriage quite a bit. The other factor is that sometimes a woman may not want to have intercourse but still wants to please her husband and this a great way to make him a very happy man. The decision to have oral sex and how often should be talked about between a husband and wife. There is no set standard and it will vary in every couple.
The first and most important step about a wife giving her husband oral sex is the fact that she wants to do it. This is a selfless sexual act done by a wife that wants to bring pleasure to her husband for the sole purpose of pleasing him. This is a very powerful statement and needs to be understood by both husband and wife.
He also has to entrust his wife to take the upmost care of his delicate penis while placing it in her mouth. There is nothing sexier than for a wife to want to please her husband in this manner and there is no quicker way to bring a man to orgasm. When a woman is giving her husband oral sex she is in complete control over him, deciding on when to give him pleasure and when to take it away.
he act of oral sex for a wife giving this to her husband is out of love, desire and pleasing him while empowering herself. Many women may see this as a submissive act, but that is far from the truth, again this is about a husband and a wife enjoying the intimacy between them and a man trusting his wife enough to be careful with him and her wanting to bring him pleasure in this way.
What a wife needs to know about a man's penis and the terminology:
Glans (head) this is the top of the penis and is designed for penetration
Corona ridges the tender ridge that encircles the base of the head where it meets the shaft.
Frenulum this is considered the man’s “V” spot which is ultra sensitive and between the head and the shaft.
Meatus (urethra opening) these are like two tiny lips at the head, not a place to poke around in.
Shaft the length of the penis.
Scrotum (ball sack) the soft part that holds the testis.
Prostate (male g-spot) the muscle that creates the semen and can be a point of great pleasure if stimulated properly.
Pubococcygeus Muscle the muscle that encircles the base of the penis and the anus.
Perineum (slang is taint) the nerve ending area of skin between the anus and rectum, which can be very pleasurable for a man if stimulated properly.
How to stimulate the penis
A man has two very sensitive spots on his penis that are rich in nerve endings and that is the "V" spot and the taint, when stimulated properly, with the right pressure, this can add to the pleasure and sensation of a man’s orgasm and the length of time it takes to climax, between 4-10 minutes on average.
A man should be able to achieve an orgasm from oral sex in less than ten minutes, sorry to add a timer to it, but done properly most men will have an orgasm in less than ten minutes and be completely satisfied and worship his lovely beautiful wife who took the time to do it!
How to get the process started and what a woman can do to give her some sexual aids for oral sex. The best product for a woman to use while giving oral sex to her husband is a numbing throat spray for the gauge reflux. This is no joke, after a woman has had a child for some unknown reason her gag reflex may become compromised, and a quick spray of desensitizing gel will solve the problem.
One other problem that can occur with a man is the taste of him and the thickness especially if he has had a vasectomy. When a man has had a vasectomy, it can make his sperm more thick. The resolution is a large glass of pineapple juice the night before. Lastly if a woman wants a little help a stroker and some great lubrication can do the job. Place the lubrication on the penis place the stroker to the base of the penis and insert the head in your mouth while moving the stroker up and down. The pressure and release is orgasmic for a man!
If you dont want to use a stroker you can place your hand at the base of the penis and twist gently while placing the head of the penis in your mouth. If you do not want him to ejaculate in your mouth, you simply move your hand from the base to the tip and catch the cum in your hand. Most women can feel when a man is cuming and many men like to shout it out as well.
Last but not least is a remember to stimulate the "V" spot and if a man will allow you to stimulate the prostate, some little vibrating frisky fingers will add to the overall pleasure. For a wife, knowing how to please her husband with oral sex is a great gift for her!
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