How To Get My Wife Interested in a Cuckold Marriage

What Is The Line Between Sexual Fantasy and Reality?

Dr. Dawn Michael clinical sexologist in this video talks about when you have taken your sexual fantasy too far.  There is a fine line between reality and fantasy and that is what is discussed in this  educational video.  With the advance of technology, sex dolls, the internet and pornography, sexual fantasies can now become a reality, but how do people know when they have crossed a line that they feel they cannot come back from? 

The Submissive Cuckold Man

Are you a submissive cuckold man who is confused about your feeling of wanting to watch your wife have sex with other men?  This video on cuckold husbands by Dr. Dawn Michael clinical sexologist may shed light on this fetish and answer some serious questions that men have about a cuckold relationship.

When The Cuck is Sexually Attracted To The Bull in Cuckolding

When a cuck is sexually attracted to the bull in a cuckold relationship it can change the dynamic of the cuckold relationship.

Cuckolding From a Psychological Perspective The Intelligent Fetish

The term cuckold in modern terms refers to a sexual fetish in which the fetish is stimulated by their committed partner choosing to have sex with someone else. This is the very basic term of cuckold that is defined, but what is left out is the entire concept of the need of the man to have another man please his wife (significant other) and her wanting it.  That is the basis of most cuckold fantasy, the fringe or as I like to put it the extras can include but are not limited too: The man has a larger penis, in fact larger the better and many times it is a black male that is the man.

The husband many want to watch or he simply may want his wife to have sex and then come back and tell him about it.

There is also the act of humiliation which can range from simple humiliation of penis size comparison to more extreme humiliation of  being punished, put in chastity belt, made to please the other man oral or anal, tied up, or asked to clean out his wife. (To be specific after she has been with another man he is to lick the semen out of her vagina)  There is also a biological component to this as well, him cleaning her out and then having sex with her leaving his sperm inside.

Some men enjoy being sissified where they are asked to dress up and made to look like a women as they watch their wife have sex with many other men and they are not allowed to touch themselves. The psychological component to all of this is interesting as well, most people that are into the cuckolding have a vivid imagination and an active mind.  The eroticism of the act itself is the catalyst not the sex, but the thoughts of it are almost more appealing to men then actually doing it...(The fantasy aspect)

The biological part of cuckolding is fascinating as well, where his sperm will be the dominate sperm ,even if he is not able himself please his wife sexually.  

Some men get triggered into cuckolding by an ex-girlfriend that cheated on them, and somehow instead of it causing him to be jealous it turned him on.  Another dynamic or association is a man that many feel that his penis is too small or not sufficient enough to please his wife.  A third dynamic is that his wife will enjoy being with several well endowed men and not leave him because he is letting her have her fill, but she gets her love and friendship from him.  The problems that does happen with men in general with a wife, is that some of them either turn into poly relationships where the women gets attached to the other man, or she decides that she is no longer interested in this type of relationship with her spouse.  Some men are married for years and never tell their spouse either that they have this fetish.

Does this type of relationship exist, yes it does and can it work, that is the question?  

For some couples it can for a time, but for most couples that I have worked with or spoken with the time is limited and problems do occur.  The fetish is mostly male driven, but there are women that do find an interest in it as well, but not likely to marry a women then expose her to it after the marriage and expect her to accept it.  The relationships that do work are usually the one's when it is open to begin with, and the woman dictates what she does and does not want.

As a clinical sexologist and intimacy counselor, I always welcome new information on topics and this one in particular I find fascinating.  If anyone has a comment to add or discussion more on the topic please feel free to leave your comments below.

For more information or to set up an appointment with Dawn visit The Happy Spouse

Cuckold fantasy from a wife that enjoys having sex with other men

What is cuckolding?  

The present day version on the cuckold experience is a husband and a wife that want to have a third person come into the marriage to please the woman.  The woman is the person who feels that her husband is not pleasing her enough sexually so, she must gain that pleasure from another man with a larger penis. 

The other man is there to please his wife because he is not able to do the job with his small penis, or he has performance issues.  In many scenarios the husband will be forced to watch his wife get pleasure from a man while he is in the room, as an added bonus he can be in a chastity belt for her ultimate control over his orgasm.  In some instances, he may be spanked, humiliated and forced to "clean up" after the job is done.

Again this is a fetish that the man has and the wife that he is married too will participate in.  The facts are that cuckolding can be very stimulating for a husband and a wife, but for the most part is initiated by the husband. 

My job as a clinical sexologist is to educate people rather than place judgement on them.  

Advising husbands who do have this fetish is not so cut and dry, some wives eventually may find this exciting where others may find it disgusting...so when helping men with this fetish to bring it into the marriage or even try to communicate this cuckolding fetish with his wife, is a slow process.  The other fact is that these feelings or the desire for the cuckolding experience do not go away...with some men the more that they deny their feelings the stronger it may get.