Gain Control of Your Erectile Dysfunction

When a man has lost his erection and does not know what to do?

As a Sex Therapist one of the most common asked questions is what to do when a man has suddenly lost an erection or that their penis is not functioning as it was before.

Having lost control of an erection is more common than most people think and can happen to any man in his life.  Many times it will come down to performance anxiety and stress in life which is an ever growing problem.  The way that a man deals with it is going to determine of it will become a continuing problem or something that can be resolved easily.

The first question that I ask my male clients is if they have had a Physical and clean bill of health. 

When a man wakes up in the moring he should have an erection, not because he is sexual but because it means that the blood flow is working and his testosterone levels are high enough to maintain an erection. 

If a man should have circulation problems with his heart he many not wake up with an erection and should go to the doctor.  The other problem that can occure is problem's with the prostate, having an enlarged prostate can put presser on the flow of blood and cause problems with maintaining an erection and the amount of seminal fluid that is released.

If my client has no medical condition then then we move onto trying a few products that improve blood flow to the penis at a rapid rate, I recommend a few products that I would like the men to try first.

Prosolution is a great gel that a man can put on for blood flow to go to the penis and help with a stronger erection and it helps with rapid ejaculation.

If the gel does not work then I recommend sex therapy and coaching to get the mind where it needs to be and learn to build and maintain an erection.  If the problem is rapid ejaculation then I would recommend a series of exercises that can help with it along with the gel. 

For help with erection problems contact Dawn Michael for an appointment or call (805) 732-7847
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Erotic novel book review "Secrets" volume 10 by Dawn Michael

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Turn up the heat because this erotic novel is sizzling hot for women, couples and men. 
This is not a new novel but one that I sex counselor will recommend to my clients who may need a little help in spiceing up their sex life.  The book has four short stories in it and one of my favorites is the one call The Sacrifice by Kathryn Anne Doubois.  For any woman who needs to feel the desire again this is a wonderful book to heat up the passion in your own body.  The book can also be read to each other as a couple, including role play and teasing.

One expert form the book
"The Sacrifice"
The story is about Anastasia Bedovier a young lady who has taken vows of chastity to become a nun.  Before she denies her sensuality forever, she is taken to the Count Maxwells house of pleasure to test her strength of sexual desire.  She is shown scenes of lusty women with men and touched in places that no man has touched before, leaving her with thoughts and feeling that are of shame and pleasure mixed together.

To hear the chapter being read go to The Happy Spouse Adult Show blogtalkradio titled "mind sex"
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To have your book read for review contact Dawn Michael dawn@thehappyspouse.com

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