Showing posts with label erection. Show all posts
Showing posts with label erection. Show all posts

Monday, November 14, 2016

Is It a Penis or a Clitoris or Both?



We often only equate erectile tissue with just the penis but it also exists in the clitoris.   Erectile tissues are numerous vascular spaces that become engorged with blood.  For females, erectile tissue can be found in the clitoris, as well as in the bulbs of the vestibule.  These two tissues have the same function as the tissues in a male penis. They fill with blood to cause a clitoral erection. They also cause the vagina opening (the vulva) to swell.

The penis and the clitoris come from the same tissue

A genital tubercle or phallic tubercle is a body of tissue that develops into a penis or a clitoris at around 4 weeks and can be distinguished as a penis or a clitoris by about 9 weeks gestation.  The clitoris forms from the same tissues that become the glans and upper shaft of the penis, and this shared embryonic origin.  If exposed to testosterone, the genital tubercle elongates to form the penis.  Without the testosterone it remains a clitoris.  In the absence of testosterone, the genital tubercle allows for formation of the clitoris; the initially rapid growth of the phallus gradually slows and the clitoris is formed.  The clitoris is a complex structure, and its size and sensitivity can vary. The glans (head) of the human clitoris is roughly the size and shape of a pea but can vary, and is estimated to have more than 8,000 sensory nerve endings.

This information is so important because over stimulating the head of the clitoris can become painful, irritating and is one reason why some women are not able to achieve orgasm.  We can relate this to a mans penis where only the head of the penis gets stimulated, and not the shaft.  Same goes for a woman's clitoris, the shaft of her clitoris is located under the skin that goes inside the vagina and is part of what is known as the G-spot.  Just focusing on the head of the clitoris leaves out the shaft and legs of the clitoris when erect and filled with blood can be extremely arousing to stimulate.  Using a tongue, fingers, penis, sex toy, to stimulate the shaft of the clitoris located inside the vagina can be equally arousing when the clitoris is erect, this area is about an inch inside known as the G-spot.  This can be done with a slight pressing up in the area under the clitoris inside the vagina to indirectly massage the clitoral shaft.  As a woman gets aroused the inner legs of the clitoris located inside the vagina will also fill with blood and become erect and be pleasurable with deeper penetration.

Monday, July 11, 2011

When a man has lost his erection and does not know what to do?


As a Sex Therapist one of the most common asked questions is what to do when a man has suddenly lost an erection or that their penis is not functioning as it was before.

Having lost control of an erection is more common than most people think and can happen to any man in his life.  Many times it will come down to performance anxiety and stress in life which is an ever growing problem.  The way that a man deals with it is going to determine of it will become a continuing problem or something that can be resolved easily.

The first question that I ask my male clients is if they have had a Physical and clean bill of health. 

When a man wakes up in the moring he should have an erection, not because he is sexual but because it means that the blood flow is working and his testosterone levels are high enough to maintain an erection. 

If a man should have circulation problems with his heart he many not wake up with an erection and should go to the doctor.  The other problem that can occure is problem's with the prostate, having an enlarged prostate can put presser on the flow of blood and cause problems with maintaining an erection and the amount of seminal fluid that is released.


If my client has no medical condition then then we move onto trying a few products that improve blood flow to the penis at a rapid rate, I recommend a few products that I would like the men to try first.

Prosolution is a great gel that a man can put on for blood flow to go to the penis and help with a stronger erection and it helps with rapid ejaculation.


If the gel does not work then I recommend sex therapy and coaching to get the mind where it needs to be and learn to build and maintain an erection.  If the problem is rapid ejaculation then I would recommend a series of exercises that can help with it along with the gel. 
For help with erection problems contact Dawn Michael for an appointment or call (805) 732-7847
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Tuesday, March 15, 2011

The shocking facts on masturbation in marriage on The Happy Spouse Adult Show

When a person gets married does it mean that they are no longer suppose to masturbate or if they do, should it be kept a secret from their spouse?

These are a few of the questions that many people ask me as a sex counselor and marriage counselor. In fact these are the most commonly asked questions but not necessary the ones that people really want to know, those question are the ones we will be talking about. This week on The Happy Spouse Adult Show on blogtalkradio we will be openly talking about masturbation in marriage the good, the bad and the addicted.
The topics that will be discussed are:

Male masturbation through on line pornography sites, is it alright or out of control?

Masturbation to achieve orgasm.

Masturbation because of sexless marriage.

Different and unconventional ways that people masturbate (this you don’t want to miss).

Fears surrounding masturbation.
Couples masturbating together.

The positive aspects of masturbation in marriage.

The negative aspect of masturbation in marriage.

Sex products used for masturbation, dolls, vagina and ass, stokers, vibrators, and more.

For questions that you may want answered on the live show e-mail to dawn@thehappyspouse.com or tune in this Thursday March 17th at noon standard pacific time to blogtalkradio and call in with your questions 1 (805) 285-9800 or call in through Skype.

Have a happy day from your L.A sex counselor and marriage counselor Dawn Michael visits me at The Happy Spouse. For appointments with Dawn Michael go to http://www.thehappyspouse.com/
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