There is such a things as “too much of a good thing!” Allow me to define a healthy amount of pornography
and masturbation as opposed to over indulgence.
As a clinical sexologist, I have helped many people understand the
difference between porn addiction, over desensitization, sexual pattern, and
how to manage their sex lives. There is
a direct correlation with watching pornography, masturbation, and developing a sexual
pattern.
Now if you plan on being alone
for the rest of your life, no human contact or ever dating and having sex with another
person then watching porn by yourself endlessly can be your partner. Most people though like having a “real sex
partner”, lover, marriage, relationship over” just a life time of solo masturbation.”
Let me break this down into simple terms, watching too much
porn and masturbating the same way each time, is going to create a sexual
pattern, and this is going to make “real sex” with a “real person” more
difficult. The problem mainly occurs
with men but a fair share of women get hooked on their vibrators and the same
sexual pattern can happen there as well.
The brain gets used to the continued pattern by which a person orgasms. Continued masturbation in the same way each
time sets up the pattern, when involved with a partner that pattern is hard to break,
especially if it is done consistently and over a long period of time,
Solutions to this ever growing problem?
Change it up, and do it often…….. Changing your sexual
pattern is important; if you masturbate a certain way try a different hand or
new way to stimulate yourself. Use your
imagination to masturbate too, give all the outside stimulation a break and
think about what feels good on your own.
Connecting the mind and body is important for both a man and women to
understand how to think outside the box sexually. I am not saying that you can’t have some
outside stimulation, like a video, magazine or sex toy, but make it a once and
a while “a treat” rather than the experience.
Don’t let you sexual pattern ruin your sex life!
