Do you think that erotic novels are the same as pornography?

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How many people think that erotic novels are the same as pornography?


Many times erotic novels are put down or considered smut, but what if those erotic novels could actually help boost the romance in a marriage. Couples who turn toward pornography as a way to boost the sexual desire in the marriage or add some passion to the love making may be let down. The real person who is usually let down by renting a pornographic movie is the woman. Now, if the porno is well written with a story line and made with a woman in mind than that is a diffident story, but if one is scrolling through the television for a quick thrill, then that is going to be very hard to find a porno made for a woman. This is where having a few erotic novels in the toy box with be the perfect addition to some more romantic and passionate sex, especially when it comes to a woman. In one of my many articles I one called MIND SEX and how powerful this can be when a husband can engage his wife’s mind and get her to be in the mood mentally. Reading erotic novels together is one sure way to do this and it leaves all of the guess work out for the husbands. A few great books are recommended below along with a special pick by author Jeannie Ainslie who I interview on blogtalkraido about the difference between erotica and pornography.

This is also a great article to read about it as well
http://www.examiner.com/love-and-marriage-in-los-angeles/using-erotic-novels-to-create-desire-and-passion-your-marriage

To tune into to hear the interview log on to blogtalkraido

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Couples Who Play Together Stay Together

The concept of couples who play together stay together is one of the main ingredients in a successful relationship. 

Couples over time forget the concept of play in a marriage or long term relationships. 

 Play is a wonderful concept, because it can mean so many different things to a couple.  Play may come about in an activity that the couple enjoys together or laughter together.

The most important part of play in a relationship though, is sex play in the relationship.  Sex play is wonderful because the couple can bring the fun back into the bedroom and add an element of excitement to the relationship.

Sex play between couples can be:

1. Wrestling with one another:  Play wresting with one another can bring out the fun and relieve the built up sexual tension.

2.   Role playing with one another can be a lot of fun, making a scene and role playing it in bed.

3.  Sexy fun outside of the bedroom, playfull sexy fun, kissing, rubbing against each other, making out.

 4. Telling each other erotic stories.

 5.  Watching erotic videos with each other.

Sex play and fun play with other types of play is important in a relationships, it is what keeps the couple not only young but the relationship exciting and fresh.